Masculinity

I feel that the top two things that were selected as the most important traits for masculinity are how the society views it. That if I personally had to do this on my own it is not what I would look for. I did however write these two down on my sheet, the reason being is that it is something that seems the world views men by. They seem to be the only thing that people go by to judge  what men are really men in our world/society. I feel that we should take in to account other characteristics because i know that they way they view women is not how I would, and I feel that it should be the same for men. That things should be based more on things that are going on the inside and not just things that are on the outside like looks.